TRIGGR

Understand the reaction. Change the pattern.

Why did that affect you so much?

Tell TRIGGR what happened. Explore what your mind, emotions and body may be reacting to — and practice a different response.

UNDERSTANDWhat was activated
REGULATEReturn to the present
TRACEExplore whether the feeling is familiar.

A trigger isn't just a thought.

Something happens.

Your mind gives it meaning.

Your body reacts.

An emotion rises.

Your protective response takes over.

You react.

TRIGGR helps you slow that chain down.

Four moves

UNDERSTAND

What was activated

REGULATE

Return to the present

TRACE

Explore whether the feeling is familiar.

REWIRE

Practice a new response

See it in one screen

Message“Okay.”
Reaction“They're angry with me.”
BodyChest tightness.
ImpulseSend another message asking what's wrong.

TRIGGR analysis

FACT

They replied “Okay.”

INTERPRETATION

“They're angry with me.”

POSSIBLE TRIGGER

Fear of conflict or rejection.

PROTECTIVE RESPONSE

May resemble Fawn / reassurance seeking.

NEED

Clarity.

UNKNOWN

Their actual emotional state.

NEW RESPONSE

Pause → regulate → clarify if necessary.

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